How to Deal with a Short Tempered Girlfriend


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Being in a relationship with someone who is
always quick to anger isn’t really an easy
ordeal, especially when you care so much
about that person.
A male commenter dropped this comment
below in the comment section of one of our
articles and I think we should give a helping
hand, as so many other people could be in
this situation and wouldn’t know what or what
not to do.
“Am a Malawian aged 27, am in a
relationship with a girl. We have been
together for two years now, but one thing that
worries me a lot in her is losing temper.
Would you help with some tips on how to
handle my short tempered fiancée. I love her
so much and I don’t want to lose her.”
I think the following tips would be needed
1. YOU WOULD NEED A WHOLE LOT OF
CALMNESS
If your lady is fire, you can’t be the fuel
because your relationship would definitely
explode. Whenever she’s such mood, you just
have to calm your nerves down and probably
do nothing, else you could react in a way that
would worsen the situation.
2. YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HER
Sometimes, she might not even know that her
temperament is that bad; so the best thing
you can do is talk to her when she’s in a much
happier mood. Sometimes talking to a partner
about something that’s bothering you could
be the best decision one could ever make. You
should let her know on a lighter note that her
short-temper is coming between you two in
that relationship; if she’s understanding
enough then she would get the message.
3. YOU SHOULD BE SUPPORTIVE
Sometimes the best way to pass over bad
times in a relationship is to show love to your
partner. This would make it unexpected and
this would make your lady feel blessed to have
you, and when she knows she can’t afford to
lose you, she’d probably work on herself.
4. DON’T GET WORKED UP
You shouldn’t let her anger get to you; it’s
not easy really but it’s definitely a better way
out. Once it starts getting to you, you would
definitely lose it, causing you to implode, and
there probably wouldn’t be a remedy at that
stage.
5. LEARN TO WALK AWAY
This is one act many men (married men
especially) have used, and it somehow has a
way of working things out. Walking away is a
better option than hitting your lady or raising
your voice. The tape playing in your head
might be ‘you’re the man’ and ‘you deserve
more respect’; but walking away doesn’t make
you any less of a man rather it shows a man
of maturity. Leaving her alone would give her
time to reflect on her actions, and if she has a
good heart, she would definitely miss you and
try to change.
6. ANGER MANAGEMENT COURSES/THERAPY
I’m not absolutely sure that you can do all the
work alone; inasmuch as your actions can go
a long way in helping, but if she isn’t ready to
improve on herself then it would really be a
difficult one. You can visit a therapist together
and talk about your relationship issues —
opening your minds up would definitely help
you both a lot.
Also, it’s important to note that if you can’t
put through with these then you wouldn’t
want to hurt yourself in that relationship.
Inasmuch as you love that lady, she also has
to love you too.

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